FELLATIO
Fellatio Anatomy
The Penis
Given the amount of attention to this important body part, it is
strange that there is so much myth, mystery and misinformation about the
penis. First off, there are no bones or muscles in the penis. In fact, the
penis is made up primarily of spongy tissue, which becomes engorged with
blood during erection. Two or three inches of the penis are rooted inside
the body in the pubococcygeus muscle (PC muscle) and it is possible to
strengthen this muscle for stronger erections, stronger orgasms and better
ejaculatory control.
The Testicles
Because normal body temperature is too hot for sperm production,
testicles hang down, away from the body. As ejaculation nears, the testicles
are pulled toward the body. Sperm move through the vas deferens, a firm tube
that extendes from the testicles to the prostate gland, where they mix with
secretions to form ejaculate. The sperm are actually only a small part of
the ejaculate.
The Prostate
The prostate is a gland that lies at the center of the pelvis and is
highly sensitive to sexual stimulation. Some authors have even called it the
male G-spot. During erotic stumlation, the prostate becomes increasingly
aroused. The closer a man is to orgasm, the more sensitive the prostate is.
About 1/3 of the ejaculate comes from the prostate, so keeping the prostate
healthy is very important (though examinations can be unpleasant). The
prostate can be stimulated externally or through the anus.
The Perineum
The perenium is the area between the base of the testicles and the
anus. This area can be very sensitive to sexual stimulation, especially
during orgasm.
The Pubococcygeus (PC) Muscle
The PC muscle is actually a group of muscles that run from the pubic
bone in front to the tailbone in the back. The PC muscle is used every time
he stops the flow of urine from his bladder. It is also the muscle that
contracts when he ejaculates, moving the semen up through the penis and out
of the body.
The Anus
Due partly to it's proximity to the prostate gland and partly to its
own high concentration of sensitive nerve endings, the anus is a highly
erogenous zone for many men (both gay and straight). Extra care must be
taken while sexually exploring this area, as it is rich with bacteria.
Preparing for Fellatio
It's a very good idea to
thoroughly wash the penis and the surrounding areas before starting any
fellatio. A warm, wet washcloth or towel is usually sufficient - and also
feels great to him. The taste and smell of a man can vary depending on the
time of day, his diet, personal hygiene and level of arousal. It's normal to
see a little pre-cum appear at the tip just as he's getting all the way
hard, but if a burst spurts out, he's blown his load early and your job is
over before it's begun. While you don't have much control over his orgasm,
there are many things you can do to enhance the experience.
How to Swallow Without Tasting a
Drop
After years of sucking cock at
the famed brothels of Nevada, Claudia Bertlat, the "Oral Queen" reveals her
specialized technique for swallowing without tasting a drop. "When a guy's
about to cum, I use my hand to pump his shaft for all it's worth, then I
swallow the tip of his cock just as he's about to burst. Not only do the men
absolutely love this (which gets me better tips), but it also goes right
down my throat. I don't taste a thing!"
Hard Cock Sucking
For some, fellatio can be a soft
and gentle experience. But for others, it's about hard sucking and face
fucking. The techniques listed below are designed for serious cock sucking,
like you're trying to suck the skin right off the shaft. Especially when
they get closer to orgasm, most men actually prefer that you "turn it up a
notch" in terms of sucking intensity. Watch out for those sensitive types,
who will generally let you know that you've gone too hard by shrieking out
in pain. But if they like it, go for the gusto.
Suck Cock Like a Pro
Begin by teasing his inner
thighs and lower scrotum with your tongue. Caress the shaft of his penis
slowly as you let your tongue work it's way around the base of the scrotum
and finally to the base of the shaft. With one long lick, drive your tongue
across the shaft from the base to the tip. As you go, let one hand follow by
cupping two fingers in an o shape around the base, then sliding after the
tongue up the shaft. Imagine removing a condom (though that's not
recommended at this point).
Give the tip of the cock one or
two good sucks, sliding your tongue aroudn the tip when it's in your mouth.
Don't let your teeth touch the penis at all. Next, grab his cock about half
way down the shaft and begin pumping his cock towards your mouth. As you're
pumping with one hand, reach under and lightly grab his scrotum in the palm
of the other hand. Let one finger or two tricle tantalizingly towards the
anus.
Let your lips lower slowly over
the tip of his penis and onto the shaft. Rhythmically work your tonge around
the tip as you move your lips up and down the shaft of his cock from about
the 1/3 way to the top all the way to the base of the tip. Keep the tip in
your mouth the whole time and roll your tongue back and forth over it. As
you get your rhythm going, start sucking harder and harder on the shaft and
tip.
Begin to moan and buck in
delight when you sense that he's about to cum. As the first bursts hit your
throat, increase the intensity until you've pumped every single drop out of
him. You've just given the perfect blowjob.
Fellatio Positions
One of the keys to good fellatio
is to spice up the routine every once in a while with a new position or
technique. Without being a contortionist, you can still wriggle yourself
into countless positions from which you can please your man. Make sure
you're both comfortable, then get busy...
Standing
The classic technique requires you to be on your knees or sitting directly
in front of him with your mouth at penis level...
Sitting
Have him sit comfortable in a chair, couch or even on the floor. Place your
body between his legs with your head at penis level...
Laying Have him lay
comfortably on his back on the bed or floor. Approach from between the feet
and position yourself so that your mouth is at penis level...
69 A tremendous sharing
of erotic interplay occurs during this wonderful position. It's easy to be
distracted by him going down on you, so make sure you give extra attention
to his penis as he brings you closer and...
Fellatio Techniques
Anyone can go down on a guy, wrap their lips around
his penis and move around a little. In fact, for most men, that is enough.
However, if you really want a guy to enjoy your blowjobs, extend your
reportoire to include the following specials.
Using the Hands There's nothing better for a guy than
to have one or both hands around the base of his cock pumping away as you
suck on the tip...
Spit Chain Allow some spit to dangle from your mouth to his penis as you
move your head away from it...
Teabagging Position your head directly below his scrotum. Gently take one
ball into your mouth and roll your tongue around it...
Hitting the Prostate Often called the "million dollar spot" on a man, the
prostate is the gland which pumps out much of the ejaculate...
Deep Throat Prized among all men is the ability of their partner to deep
throat...
